She is the girl with tailored distinction, inside and out - a cup of prep blended with just a dash of sassy. Finishing school, fund-raising events, tennis and tea parties - these commitments earned her a seat with the aristocratic jet-set class. So when she is lounging on the deck of the private yacht near Waila or playing the consummate host of never-ending galas and luncheons in the Hollywood Hills, she plays the role and she look the part in her FK headwrap, the symbol of understated urbanity and good breeding.